SCRIPTS FOR RELATIONSHIPS
                                   SCRIPT 3

                 "FOR PROBLEMS IN YOUR CLOSEST RELATIONSHIPS"


    Let  the  person  with  whom  you  are having difficulty appear on your
    internal screen or minds eye.  First, just see the face.  Scan it  very
    slowly, looking at the eyes, the eyebrows, the set of the chin, looking
    for  frowns  and lines which may indicate worry or anger.  Let yourself
    stop at any point to really look at a part of the face you never really
    saw when you were together.

    Now  let  that  person's voice come into your mind's eye.  What are the
    first words that person says?  What does he or she say to you that  you
    have not been hearing?

    Once  the  statement  has been made, take three deep breaths before you
    answer.  Simply be with the words you heard and digest them.

    Now respond from your innermost being, not from those old words at  the
    top of your consciousness.

    Go  back to observing your loved one with whom you are having problems,
    and take a new look at his or her face.  See the effect your words have
    had.  Simply let whatever happens be there.

    Is there anything else he or she wants to say or do?  Is there anything
    else you want to say or do?  Let it happen...

    Spend another moment being together, in the way you  most  want  to  be
    with  each  other.  Remember the feelings you have for this person when
    there aren't problems between you...


    **If you try this, I'd be interested in knowing the response  you  have
    had.   I have had very good success with this script, and hope yours is
    equally responsive!
                                                The Wizard Ariel>

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