SCRIPTS FOR RELATIONSHIPS
                                   SCRIPT 4

             "TO THROW LIGHT ON A CONFLICT WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE"



    The next time you and the special person in your life  begin  to  argue
    heatedly,  and  you  both  feel that neither one understands the other,
    stop for a few moments and try this approach...

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    Face each other and  hold  hands,  and  with  your  eyes  closed  do  a
    relaxation  exercise  together,  perhaps  on in which you focus on your
    breathing.  (see RELAX.ZIP, found on this BBS)

    Now see white light radiating from the top of your head to the  top  of
    the  other  person's  head  and cascading down through his or her body.
    See white light then flow back to you from the other person...

    When you feel filled with the other  persons  light,  picture  a  blank
    screen  on  which  you see the problem that has come between you.  Now,
    wiping the problem off the screen, see the solution to it...

    After a few moments of silence together, share what each  of  you  have
    seen on your respective screens.  Then listen to each other!


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